Lose Your Focus and Miss The Mark!
The Power of Focus: How to Hit Your Business, Personal, And Financial Targets With Absolute Certainty
Do you believe that what you focus on in life you get? I do! I have not only seen it in my own life but also in the lives of my friends and family – and even strangers. I’m sure if you look around you will see it in your own life or the lives of people around you.
It’s a simple truth!
Where your focus goes your attention flows – that’s just the way it is. If you want something badly enough and you keep your focus on it (and your attention) then you will get it. It doesn’t matter whether it’s negative or positive. You will get whatever you are focusing on.
The reasoning is partly the law of attraction (stay with me if you don’t believe in that) and partly the action you take on your focus. You essentially set up your life (by taking action) so that you can do things that result in your focus coming to life.
For example, if your focus is to find love in the way of a relationship then chances are you are not just sitting around at home watching TV. You are probably going out to places that may have someone you are interested in like a bar or event that interests you. You may be asking friends to set you up with people they know. You may be using online dating to find someone of interest. You are probably sizing up every person you see to determine whether they would be a good match for you. In other words you are taking action towards finding love, and the chances of you finding someone are pretty good when you are taking action!
Now back to the law of attraction side of things – people and events are also being moved into your path in order to help you get what you are focused on. For instance, if you are trying to find love then you may find that you come across a lot of guys or girls who want to get to know you in your day. Or maybe you are receiving many hints about how you should go about finding love through blogs, books, or online resources. They are just naturally appearing more in your life because finding love is your focus.
You may say, so what? That’s just a coincidence that these things are appearing more in my life, but the truth is they are there because your focus is there.
The problem with these things appearing in your life is that you may not be seeing them for what they are – things or events that can help you. You may think that guy or girl who seems completely opposite of what you want is standing in your way to finding love or you may think that the books you are coming across are trying to tell you that you are incapable of finding someone that you really want. You may be getting the wrong message from these things that are trying to help you in some way.
Once you focus on the message you think is being sent to you then you shift your focus from ‘finding love’ to ‘Why should I bother’ or some other non-helpful tone. This doesn’t help you because now you are focused on something completely different and not moving towards your actual want! Instead you are moving towards making your new focus come true.
The trick is to stay focused on the thing you want. You can do this by trying to see everyone or thing that comes into your daily life as a possible way to help you achieve what you are trying to get. Ask yourself one question “How can this person or event benefit me on my quest to find love?” You will probably be surprised at the answer you get back in return. It may be something as small as “This person can teach me what I don’t want in a guy or girl” or “This book has shown me a new way to look at love or exactly what I am looking for!” Take the benefit out of the situation and keep moving towards your focus.
If the person or event does not give you insight into how to achieve your focus then move on. Don’t stay focused on it! That will only deter you from getting what you want. Move on to see what else will come into your life to help you achieve what you are focusing on.
